Friday, May 01, 2009

To be a programmer

If u choose to be a programmer, then you choose many things in ur life..

If u choose to be a programmer,
then you choose to have backache,
to wear eye glasses,
to have headache most of ur days,
to be under stress most of the time,
to turn crazy one day,
but you also you choose to earn lots of money(I know these days there is no money aslan and about myself I didn’t see the lots of money de :D but I am trying to be optimistic and to add an advantage to programmers)

But in spite of all that I am proud being a programmer..
Just pray for good health :)

Friday, February 13, 2009

Handbook 2009

I liked this article so much and would like to share it with u.

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30.. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Monday, January 05, 2009

Attitude

I think that most of our reactions depend on our attitude,

Sometimes you feel so depressed and sad, then you hear a joke, you won't laugh.
but if you are in a mood of laughing, any silly joke you hear, you will laugh at.

If you like someone and he told you an idea, you will find yourself convinced,
but if you don't like him, you will reject hearing any idea from him.

If you are not feeling good and then go out to a new place, you won't feel satisfied even if you are with ur friends, yes you might feel better but your deep sadness won't disappear,
but if you are happy or heard good news, any place you go will find it a good change.

If you are so sad and many bad things happened to you, then a more slight bad thing happens, you will find yourself crying.
but if you are ok, you will feel any bad thing can pass safely.

and many many examples....

So it is all about your attitude, so try to keep it up.

Saturday, January 03, 2009

Forgive And Forget

Many times I thought about forgiving people when they do something upsets you and forgetting what they did.

When I forgive them I find myself sometimes remembering what they did!!
So I ask myself did I really forgive them??
The answer is yes, and if I couldn't forgive them coz they are my friends, I will forgive them for the sake of Allah..
So how I remember to them the bad things they did to me??!!

That made me thinks about the relation between forgiving and forgetting.

Then I reached a conclusion..
It is true you can always forgive when you forget,
but it is not a must to forget when you forgive.