Attitude

I think that most of our reactions depend on our attitude,

Sometimes you feel so depressed and sad, then you hear a joke, you won't laugh.
but if you are in a mood of laughing, any silly joke you hear, you will laugh at.

If you like someone and he told you an idea, you will find yourself convinced,
but if you don't like him, you will reject hearing any idea from him.

If you are not feeling good and then go out to a new place, you won't feel satisfied even if you are with ur friends, yes you might feel better but your deep sadness won't disappear,
but if you are happy or heard good news, any place you go will find it a good change.

If you are so sad and many bad things happened to you, then a more slight bad thing happens, you will find yourself crying.
but if you are ok, you will feel any bad thing can pass safely.

and many many examples....

So it is all about your attitude, so try to keep it up.

Forgive And Forget

Many times I thought about forgiving people when they do something upsets you and forgetting what they did.

When I forgive them I find myself sometimes remembering what they did!!
So I ask myself did I really forgive them??
The answer is yes, and if I couldn't forgive them coz they are my friends, I will forgive them for the sake of Allah..
So how I remember to them the bad things they did to me??!!

That made me thinks about the relation between forgiving and forgetting.

Then I reached a conclusion..
It is true you can always forgive when you forget,
but it is not a must to forget when you forgive.