Friday, May 01, 2009

To be a programmer

If u choose to be a programmer, then you choose many things in ur life..

If u choose to be a programmer,
then you choose to have backache,
to wear eye glasses,
to have headache most of ur days,
to be under stress most of the time,
to turn crazy one day,
but you also you choose to earn lots of money(I know these days there is no money aslan and about myself I didn’t see the lots of money de :D but I am trying to be optimistic and to add an advantage to programmers)

But in spite of all that I am proud being a programmer..
Just pray for good health :)

Friday, February 13, 2009

Handbook 2009

I liked this article so much and would like to share it with u.

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30.. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Monday, January 05, 2009

Attitude

I think that most of our reactions depend on our attitude,

Sometimes you feel so depressed and sad, then you hear a joke, you won't laugh.
but if you are in a mood of laughing, any silly joke you hear, you will laugh at.

If you like someone and he told you an idea, you will find yourself convinced,
but if you don't like him, you will reject hearing any idea from him.

If you are not feeling good and then go out to a new place, you won't feel satisfied even if you are with ur friends, yes you might feel better but your deep sadness won't disappear,
but if you are happy or heard good news, any place you go will find it a good change.

If you are so sad and many bad things happened to you, then a more slight bad thing happens, you will find yourself crying.
but if you are ok, you will feel any bad thing can pass safely.

and many many examples....

So it is all about your attitude, so try to keep it up.

Saturday, January 03, 2009

Forgive And Forget

Many times I thought about forgiving people when they do something upsets you and forgetting what they did.

When I forgive them I find myself sometimes remembering what they did!!
So I ask myself did I really forgive them??
The answer is yes, and if I couldn't forgive them coz they are my friends, I will forgive them for the sake of Allah..
So how I remember to them the bad things they did to me??!!

That made me thinks about the relation between forgiving and forgetting.

Then I reached a conclusion..
It is true you can always forgive when you forget,
but it is not a must to forget when you forgive.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Imagination

Why aren't we imaginative?? Why don't we try to broad our minds??

Did you think before what would you be after thirty years for example??
You will find yourself saying I will be older, I will have children..thinking of things from outside,
an imaginative person will tell you for example I am imaging myself sitting with my four children on a table, the first is a graduate from faculty of engineering and the second got 97% in Thanaweya 3ama and we are celebrating now .. my hair will be white but I am going to change its color..
Anything that makes you feel he is telling you a story..

You may ask me now..SO WHAT?? Why to imagine all that?
I will tell you we have to. We have to imagine coz imagination leads to creativity..

If you exercise yourself to imagine in small issues, you will find yourself a creative person in great issues like in your work.. a creative person will get high positions quickly because he will prove himself in work by his new ideas and when he become a director he will think of ways to encourage his employees so he will gain their love.. and other many things to imagine.

Another small example when your friend asks you "what about going out this weekend?" .. the ordinary answer is "ok but where to go ??!! " and you find yourselves going to the same place you go from four years!!
Why don't we leave our minds and think of a different thing to do or a place to go?

When Muslims became creative they will make others love Islam and will create new ways to help poor Muslims to have their rights and week Muslims to be stronger.

Leave your mind and think. Try to do it at least once a week..
Really .. am so serious .. if you tried to be imaginative and creative, your life will change to better one isA.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Time


A short word and it itself is too short nowadays.
The problem is not it is short or not .. The problem is how can you use it well? how to feel that you don’t regret that the day passed and have done all what you have to do in it.

I feel that I have energy and time el7amdlAllah and nothing to do..Every day is like the other not totally but most of it. I hope to do something new and of a great effect to me and others. Something that makes me feels satisfied.

Now I knew why people who have nothing to do goes to sit in cafés instead of sitting at home .. because humans have ENERGY that must be used and when they find themselves doing nothing at home they try to extract some of this energy through meeting new people, talking, playing and eating. And that’s why we get fatter as we sometimes use our energy in eating as an exercise to our mouth :D .. YES IT HAPPENS..

Really living doing nothing is a very bad feeling if it is not the worst that might lead you to the worst ever.

So Please (actually I am talking to myself) do something useful, work on your bad points to be better, use your energy and your time coz Allah will ask us about it, play sports, learn something new and READ a lot.

Hoping to know the right start and path to use my time and energy..

Monday, July 07, 2008

Supposed to be

Today is my final seminar.
So it is supposed to be the most important day for me this year and I want to write about it.
i don't want to write because I am happy with it but This is the FINAL.

My group was supposed to be the 7th group, but actually we entered instead of the 3rd!!
We went to the hall to know whose turn is it, and were surprised by a man calling the 7th group.
HOW, WHEN, WHERE, WHO!!! ....really I don't know.

The best(worst) things are that the presentation wasn't completely finished, one of my team members wasn't with us and was supposed to start the presentation.

We told the dr that we are supposed to begin at 12 pm, he told us to go and do our seminar with the one who told us so OR start now.
Actually it was only one option .. to start now..
I won't talk about the details, but I think we dealt with the situation.

The bad points that I want others to benefit from is
to be totally ready for ur presentation a day before ur seminar.
Every member can talk about others' parts in the presentation.
Your documentation must be perfect because there are some drs that have nothing to do except looking at ur faults in it.
Try to make a presentation with max time 20 mins coz drs have no time to hear u :S

I hoped this day would be a happy memory to remember through my whole life, but "قدر الله وما شاء فعل "