The worst habit is talking about others, but I am
not talking now about saying the good things of them, I am talking about the bad side.
X talks about Y from his back especially if X is upset from Y .But the worst thing is that X doesn't talk only about someone but he is talking about his friend!!!
The REALLY great thing that i knew from a short period of time is....
1-That whom u talk about can be also talking about u and u don't have the right to be upset as u do the same to him.....
2-Everyone u talk about from his back ,the day will come and he knows that u were talking about .
Try to think of it for a while ... ur friend who is with u most of the time talking,sharing situations and joking once he got upset from u, goes to talk about u to others...sooo hurting;
Everyone talks about others should be shy from himself.
What should makes us stop that is to know that Allah is looking at us and that person is taking from our 7asanat.
And it is better not to talk
About Y but to talk
TO that Y..
but this is in case that Y doesn't know that he upsets u..
While in the other case u should pray God to forget about what is said about u and forgive him for the sake of God.
I don't say that I don't talk about anyone but I am writing to remind myself and others.
