When you are choosing between different things..what is your way of thinking???
Do you think what is the most thing you like?
OR what will make you benefit more?
OR what is the best of the bad ones?.. which means that you don't like them all but you have to choose..
OR you choose the thing that all around you are encouraging you to choose?.. you choose the thing that has a great reputation..
u must try to choose what u feel confortable with or what u think u can do great effort in or try to write each advantages and disadvantages to know which is better.
What if you don't feel that you care about one of the choices more than others .. and you want to pray "aste7'ara" ... What is the thing that you are going to say in your "aste7'ara"?
And if you don't care about any of your choices.. Does that mean you are not an ambitious person?
And if you are not ambitious.. Does that counts a bad point in your character?
Does everyone must be ambitious or live for the day...
I don't mean a person with no goals in his life.. but a person with simple goals .. finishes one then thinks of the next.. his goals is not easy to do but he is not looking forward to a very far goal.
This makes me thinks of the definition of ambitious.. Does it means always thinking of tomorrow and how to be better? or wants the best for his career with no matter of thinking of the very far goals..
Or the person thinking of the far goals is called a dreamer, not an ambitious.
Really don't know.........
If my words is not obvious..I will clear it in one but long question..
"In high school ,do you think of getting high marks ,then when you get it you think of the college you want?....OR...You think of the college you want then you try to get high marks?....OR nothing is better both are good and lead to the same future"
3 comments:
eh el post el malee2 bel keda da :D. mates2alenesh y3ny eh keda :huuuh
el mohem ya setty, bel nesba le so2alek el a7'eer, fe sanaweya 3amma ana kont keda keda shatra we bageeb ta2deer (asdy magmoo3 :D), so I didn't face el situation da.
bass ana fahma so2alek y3ny we 3arfa to2sody eh, we I think en ana men el noo3 elly bey7added howa 3ayez eh then work for it, sa7ee7 ana bardo lamma ba7added my goal sa3at mesh ba-work for it bass da beykoon kasal aw 3'oroor aw over-estimation le my capabilities.
nice post ya Yuppie bgd, bass mesh 3arfa leeh 7aseet ennek upset men 7aga :(. I hope u r not upset really we ennek tekoony just being serious :D
fe3lan ya asmaa hwa malyan keda :D
keda bel nesbaly ya3ny "as2ela keteeer"
ama 3la my question i didn't mean the problem of getting high marks, i am talking about the way of thinking .. i think you got it later.
The problem is -as you said- sometimes we don't work for our goals, or not having a great goal seeking for which makes me feel bad.
bs and thanx asmaa 4 ur comment :)
al salam 3alikom w ra7mat allah .
realy very nice words but it made me very confused.
i knew what i want but after these questions i just interrupted and realy don't know how to think...
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