I sometimes thought about it. I don't know we must love people without thinking or we have to think before that. I mean ….
! Sometimes I find that when you love someone and you find that she doesn't love you or love you but not as you do you feel that you are hurt, but sometimes when you love someone ,she loves you coz she realized that you love her…Something conflicting but it happens.
! Sometimes we say "You have to love people so they love you", but some people ignore who loves them and look for others to love.
To care or not to care;
! Sometimes you care for people who don't deserve or for who deserve but doesn't care for you in return as they are accustomed that you, who cares for them, not they care for you.
All these thinking come to my thought which makes me sometimes not generous in my feelings towards others, I really love people but I don't show that which might make others upset from me , On the other hand, I find that who shows their feelings are loved by others..
But I think nowadays people are so limited in showing caring and loving to others.One should be hard at many situations. This fact is soooo hurtful.
But as not to be understood wrongly I am not miser in my feelings towards my friends ,I am talking about others...Coz I am sure of my friends’ feelings towards me, and if I am suspected in it...I am sry to say that I do….
After all that, in my opinion one should leave his feelings towards others to be naturally without thinking. but....
Can't stop this thinking....
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yaaaa ka2enek bet2ery afkary ya jessy:) bgd ana fakart fel mawdoo3 da keteer especially recently besabab 7agat keda 7asaletly we matawelsh 3aleky ana tawasalt lelaty:-
ay ensan mesh lazem abadan yeregret 3ala ay feeling 7asso na7yet 7ad sawa2 el 7ad da appreciated el feeling da aw la2 coz en el ensan ye7es eno ye2dar ye7eb el nas elly 7awaleh is a bless lazem yeshkor rabena 3aleha coz fe nas keteer mabte3rafsh te7eb we de 7aga we7sha awy bgd,
buttttt i also think that everyone should think & know the others well 2abl may7es na7yethom ay 7aga howa da sa3b 7a2ee2y ana 3arfa we mesh dayman 5aaaaaaaleeees bene2dar ne3mel keda bas law 2ederna yekoon a7san,
bas lamma net2aked men elly 7awalena enohom momken yekoono bey7eboona aw at least hayappreciato our feelings lazem nesseb our feelings without any restrictions coz law homa bey7eboona but mesh 3arfeen yeba3baro:D ba3bartena de hat5eelhom yeba3baro homma kaman:D
sry 4 tatweel,i hope u got me.
salam:)
as7ab ba2a ya Gogo ,w afkarna wa7da ;)
Right, we have to know the one infront of us well before leaving our feelings towards this person but it is difficult as you said coz kaman an al wa7ed momken yet7'ede3 f sa7bo 2li ba2alo keter ye3rafo mabalik ba2a 7ad lesa 3arfah,
I think sometimes you should wait for the one infront of you to show his feelings first..
tab we eh elly hay7'ally el person elly in front of u ye-show his feelings first??!! maho momken yekoon beyfakkar zayyek.
it's a problem bgd. bass 7awly ma tantazereesh men el nas keteer awy 3shan matetsedmeesh. we lw wasalty le mar7ala mota2akedda en el sha7'seya de kwayessa yeb2a entazery zy manty 3ayza :D.
don't stop loving ppl, it's a bless as gogonut said ;)
I think ya Asmaa an fe feelings betban men 3'er kalam ya3ny anty bet7eseha men af3al ,mesh lazem al wa7ed yestana 2li 2odamo ye3abar b al kalam,just ye7es hwa an 2li 2odamah bye7ebo w ba3den hwa ye3abar b al kalam,
bas ana fe3lan mesh bantazer men 2li 2odamy keteer 3ashan matsedemsh zay ma anty bet2oly,
w fe nas mo3ayana al wa7ed mabye2darsh y show his feelings na7yethom 2li eza hma bada2o 3ashan bardo mayetsedemsh(sha7'seyat ba2a)
I think we should let our feelings flow, but we should control them with some "wisdom" 3alashan there can NEVER exist any relationship without "giving" & "taking"..
One can't always express their own feelings while the other one , just do nth (even if that was just because he "can't" express it)
We are Humans Not Angels..
But, that doesn't mean that in sometimes you should start first & express wt U feel.. & also try to put excuses for others..
Anyway, nice post bgd :)
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