X talks about Y from his back especially if X is upset from Y .But the worst thing is that X doesn't talk only about someone but he is talking about his friend!!!
The REALLY great thing that i knew from a short period of time is....
1-That whom u talk about can be also talking about u and u don't have the right to be upset as u do the same to him.....
2-Everyone u talk about from his back ,the day will come and he knows that u were talking about .
Try to think of it for a while ... ur friend who is with u most of the time talking,sharing situations and joking once he got upset from u, goes to talk about u to others...sooo hurting;
Everyone talks about others should be shy from himself.
What should makes us stop that is to know that Allah is looking at us and that person is taking from our 7asanat.
And it is better not to talk About Y but to talk TO that Y..but this is in case that Y doesn't know that he upsets u..
While in the other case u should pray God to forget about what is said about u and forgive him for the sake of God.
I don't say that I don't talk about anyone but I am writing to remind myself and others.
3 comments:
3andek 7a2 ya yasmina, talking about others is really a very bad habit, or let us not say habit as it is not that associated to the person, but it is a bad action that we all should not do.
The point that I wanna add to what you have said is that
when we talk about somebody badly we are convinced in the subconcious that we are better than that person which is in itself a wrong feeling. you can never know who is better than who, and maybe the person whom you feel is very bad and so far from GOD, is much much nearer as s/he is doing little things but with gr8 neya or because of the gr8 fetna around him/her.
I really like your advice to talk to the person and not about him coz sometimes people bgd do things men 3'er lamma yo2sodo. and diff people has diff things that annoy them, so may be she does not know that you are upset 2aslan, and you know we have to naltames el 2a3zar lel nas la2en e7na bardo bene3mel balawy we e7na mosh wa7'deen balna ;)
we kan Amr Khaled marra 2al, law 3ayzeen Rabbena ya3fo 3anna lazem e7na na3fo 3an el nas.
Ya ret bgd kol wa7ed yebos lelly howa bye3melo 2abl ma yebos 3ala 3oyob el nas, we mosh ba2ol bardo that i am perfectly doing that, we laken i am talking to myself b4 u - as yasmine said.
Thank you ya yasmina for the nice post. Miss u dear :-*
yaaaaa...
"law 3ayzeen Rabbena ya3fo 3anna lazem e7na na3fo 3an el nas.
Ya ret bgd kol wa7ed yebos lelly howa bye3melo 2abl ma yebos 3ala 3oyob el nas"
fe3lan i liked those words soooo much, thanx yasmine 4 ur comment :)
hope to c u soon :)
Salamo Alikom the 2 Yasmines :D,
ana areet el post ya Yasmine we 3agabny geddan we 2olt lazem a-comment :D. heya sa7ee7 met2a7'ara shwaya bass m3lesh aho a7san men mafeesh :P
//Sorry Yasmine Magdi ma2aretsh ur comment lessa (3shan waraya project lazem ashta3'al feeh we 3ayza anaaaaaam) but I promise enney a-read it some time isAllah :D:D
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