My friends' categories

Business_is_Business Friends: They are a kind of friend who love you and like to talk to you coz they are your friends ,but once they need something related to their "masla7a" they forget about their friends at all.
To be more obvious I will give an example; If you are saying that you want both to understand sth from a person and she saw that person when you are not there she goes to understand alone although she can call her friend ,and can see this person another time..(This is a small example for many ones).

Acting Friends: They are a kind of friend who also love you and care for you too much which is a good thing,but when she does sth annoying to you she begins acting as I feel myself. I don't know why I feel this but I think she is saying things not coming from her heart,only saying this just not to make me sad , and as I feel it is not from her heart I don't feel what she says and feel that I am more annoyed. I really don't want her to act, just say what she feels or say nothing.

Forgetting Friends: This kind of friend sometimes forgets that her friend needs care from her, needs to share her annoyings ,her happiness, she won't always give without taking, and won't always hear you without talking to you.

Comforting Friends: They try not to make me upset from them .They are always hearing me when I want to talk ,when I am annoyed trying to comfort me , and although sometimes what I say they feel that it is sth not annoying they respect my feelings without telling me that I am exaggerating.

Fate Friends: People whom you become a friend to by fate, e.g. you see each others every day, sit and talk. And you might be not liking the same things or not having the same interests, but you became friends and will continue isA.

Funny Friends: They can't be called friends, coz our relation is just joking and kidding with each others no more .But, I called them my friends coz I love them and want to be their friend not just a person to joke with.

I love those six kinds of friends. And I am always here to hear them and share their feelings.

Note: Some of my friends are included in more than one category.

I only wrote this post coz I wanted to narrate annoying situations happened to me, and I thought if I say it that way, it will be better.

A Poem

I don't know the poet but I liked it.

"Don't Quit "

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but do not quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit-
It's when things go wrong that you must not quit.

I hope I can write poems :)

Emarates how wonerful

I won't forget this trip:)

There are 7 emirates in this country. We visited 3 (3agman,al shareka,and Dubai);but most of our wonderful visits were in Dubai.
Things came to my attention;
Most people there live in a luxurious life.
Buildings are tall and of fantastic shapes and malls are built on high level,

The most thing I liked there is following the rules, especially in streets no men standing to manage the traffic but everyone respect the rules and the traffic lights,
A very clean country neither dogs nor cats running in the street. Food is clean, there is no "3abdo talawoth" :D
People are very respectful in dealing with each others.
Every one there has his privacy.
People don't gather on free things.
But there is something strange. It is an Arabic country but you have to learn English to deal with people as app. 70% of people there are Indians.

But I love Egypt so much coz it is full of life more than any other country. That is what I feel :)

To love or Not to love…This is the question :)

I sometimes thought about it. I don't know we must love people without thinking or we have to think before that. I mean ….
! Sometimes I find that when you love someone and you find that she doesn't love you or love you but not as you do you feel that you are hurt, but sometimes when you love someone ,she loves you coz she realized that you love her…Something conflicting but it happens.
! Sometimes we say "You have to love people so they love you", but some people ignore who loves them and look for others to love.
To care or not to care;
! Sometimes you care for people who don't deserve or for who deserve but doesn't care for you in return as they are accustomed that you, who cares for them, not they care for you.

All these thinking come to my thought which makes me sometimes not generous in my feelings towards others, I really love people but I don't show that which might make others upset from me , On the other hand, I find that who shows their feelings are loved by others..

But I think nowadays people are so limited in showing caring and loving to others.One should be hard at many situations. This fact is soooo hurtful.

But as not to be understood wrongly I am not miser in my feelings towards my friends ,I am talking about others...Coz I am sure of my friends’ feelings towards me, and if I am suspected in it...I am sry to say that I do….
After all that, in my opinion one should leave his feelings towards others to be naturally without thinking. but....
Can't stop this thinking....

Words

Words I like, hoping it will change in my personality.

About
Work:
*The key to a correct direction of self is to seek the good of the group to which you are a part.
*The important part of being a manager is not what happens when you are there, but what happens when you are not there.
*Failure is an event, never a person.
*Excellence is not a destination but a continuous journey that never ends.

Life:
*Happiness has no expiration date.

*The time is always right to do what is right.

*God gives every bird it's food, but does not always drop it into the nest.

*After the game, the king and pawn go into the same box.

*When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.

*If you live each day as if it was your last,someday you'll most certainly be right.

Friendship:
*Count your life by smiles not tears, count your age by friends not years.
*You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

Others:

*Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

*Confidence, like art, never comes from having all answers; it comes from being open to all questions.

*Forgiveness is a quality great, with it in peace we live. God Himself is all forgiving, we must learn to forgive.

*The deepest feeling always shows itself in silence.

*Your smile is your first introduction.

So,tell me now which words do you like best?

Stupid replies

Many times while you are talking to someone you say something that you regret about saying it, after a while...when you thought of it later.

These are some reasons which I think it makes us say stupid replies:
1- It might be coz you are not concentrating with the one you are talking to, and then you recognize that he is asking a question and waiting for you to say something, so you say anything coz you have to guess what was the question.

2-It might be coz you didn't hear the question and embarrassed to ask for saying it twice so you say anything not related to the question.

3-If you are not interested in the conversation you are in and don't want to make the one talking to you to feel that ,so you say any stupid sentence then you think that it would be better if you remained silent.

4-If you don't understand what people (sitting with you) are talking about and then someone asked your opinion ...I think you have to replay ;)

5-If you are trying as hard as you can not to say something, then you say it coz you always think about it.

6- When you talk to two persons at the same time trying to finish one of the conversations to concentrate with only one.

I think when you feel embarrassed, you always say stupid things.

But most of these situations happen with people you don't know well, and most of them happened to me:$.

How to be Happy?

I think being happy differs from one to one according to what he likes.
I searched for how to be happy and I found that it is done in 6 steps only which are:

STEP 1: Figure out what is important to you in life.
STEP 2: Think about times when you have felt happy.
STEP 3: Decide to make more time in your life to do more of what is important to you and makes you feel happier. To be happy, you have to make happiness a priority in your life.
STEP 4: Start with little things and work up to bigger ones. Little things might be reading for 15 minutes; taking a walk; calling a friend.
STEP 5: Focus on what is positive about yourself, others and life in general instead of dwelling on the negative. In a paper, write down as many positive things as you can think of. Keep it handy to read over, and continue adding to it.
STEP 6: Appreciate what is working in your life right now. In the major areas of your life, such as your health, job, love life, friends, family, money and living situation, what is going .

And the daily affirmation :
I AM ALWAYS TRUTHFUL, POSITIVE AND HELPING OTHERS..

This was what books say;
But I also have my opinion which I want to say :)
To be happy (As my priorities)is when you feel that:
1-Allah is satisfied with what you do,
2-People love you(sure not all of them) but at least who are around you,
3-Nobody is upset with you,
4-You helped someone,
5-You are a successful person,
6-You are in a good health(To be fit).

Something that is very important is not to think of what upsets you,
in arabic "TEKABAR DEMAGAK" :D, I really need to do that.

The day of Acm local contest

It was a hard day to me.The teams are supposed to be at 9:30 am coz the contest will start at 10 am,I was there at 9:30,but my team wasn't there.I called them but I found that one was just woke up and the other will make something before coming.I was shocked :S .
They started calling the teams and called my team name ,it was a team consisting of one(me)!!!Al mohem the contest started at 10:45.One of them came after the begining of the contest.I think we were entering the contest knowing that we won't answer anything and I was angry from my friends.We answered the first problem in two hours but with wrong format of output as we thought.We tried to think about other problems but we couldn't finish any of them.we didn't submit any problem.
Then someone came to ask us if there is something wrong as we are the only team who didn't submit anything.All around us have ballons.I felt desperate.I couldn't think any more.Finally ,the contest was finished.We are the only team who didn't solve any problem.I felt the pain of stupidity:( .

Although I was very sad but I learnt a lot.
First,not to enter any contest without studying.
I wanted to proof to myself that I am not stupid.I tried to answer an old Acm problem.I started it in the next day and solved it in three hours at different periods of time.But I do it,horeeeeeeeee:) .I am not stupid.
Second,I learnt that u must challenge yourself.
And I also knew later that we solved the problem right in the contest.I was very satisfied.
At last, I learnt not to look around or to be influenced by anything during the contest to continue the contest without feeling desperate:) .

What do you think of Friendship?

Friendship means a lot.But everyone has a different opinion on it .I want to say my opinion. i think friendship has a great meaning ,it is not restricted on being beside your friend at hard times as some people think coz life is not always hard times ,and if you think by this way,you don't have to talk to your friends waiting for a disaster to happen so you can talk to them.

I think friendship is to care for your friends ,
to make them feel that you are always beside them at any time and that you love them a lot.
Friends must know everything about eachothers.It is very hard to know news about your friend from outside.
Friends always ask about eachothers and is known by eachothers.
Friends must understand eachothers well,so they can deal with eachothers without hurting thier feelings.
A friend must understand if his friend is upset from him without talking.

At last,I don't say that my opinion is the right one.I just wanted my friends to know my opinion and want anyone to comment.

This Is My Life, Rated
Life:	7.3
Mind:	6.8
Body:	7.7
Spirit:	8.8
Friends/Family:	5.3
Love:	4.3
Finance:	7.4
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Your Life Analysis:

Life: Your life rating is a score of the sum total of your life, and accounts for how satisfied, successful, balanced, capable, valuable, and happy you are. The quiz attempts to put a number on the summation of all of these things, based on your answers. Your life score is reasonably high. This means that you are on a good path. Continue doing what is working and set about to improve in areas which continue to lag. Do this starting today and you will begin to reap the benefits immediately. (Read more on improving your life)

Mind: Your mind rating is a score of your mind's clarity, ability, and health. Higher scores indicate an advancement in knowledge, clear and capable thinking, high mental health, and pure thought free of interference. Your mind score is not bad, but could be improved upon. Your mental health is not weak, but you are not achieving full mental clarity and function. Learn how to unclutter your mind. Keep learning, keep improving, continue moving forward. Read advice from other quiz-takers on improving the mind.

Body: Your body rating measures your body's health, fitness, and general wellness. A healthy body contributes to a happy life, however many of us are lacking in this area. You have a rather good body score, which is an indication that you take care of yourself. There is room for improvement, however. Please keep doing what works. Eat right, exercise, reduce your stress, treat any illness. Doing these things will help ensure your body will be in good working order for a long time to come. Read advice from other quiz-takers on improving the body.

Spirit: Your spirit rating seeks to capture in a number that elusive quality which is found in your faith, your attitude, and your philosophy on life. A higher score indicates a greater sense of inner peace and balance. Your spirit score is dramatic. Continue on your path, do not stray. Continue to reap the rewards which your spirituality brings forth. Read advice from other quiz-takers on improving the spirit.

Friends/Family: Your friends and family rating measures your relationships with those around you, and is based on how large, healthy, and dependable your social network is. Your friends and family score is not bad but can be improved. Maintain your current social net, while you try to expand it. Try new things and form new friendships. You will be rewarded greatly.

Love: Your love rating is a measure of your current romantic situation. Sharing your heart with another person is one of life's most glorious, terrifying, rewarding experiences. You have a rather low love score. While some are lucky, for most of us love doesn't fall in our laps. You must actively work on improving this area. Do not despair, there is someone out there for you. Read advice from other quiz-takers on finding and maintaining love.

Finance: Your finance rating is a score that rates your current financial health and stability. You have a rather good financial score, which is not all that common these days. Keep doing what works. Avoid common pitfalls and save for the future. You will be glad you did.

Strange things during Exams:

*An al wa7ed byshof nas ma3ah fi al dof3a 3omro mashafhom 2bl keda,
*W as7abi 2li byego al mo7adra 3la a7'er nos sa3a fiha,byego badri awi 3an ma3ad al exam,
*Al nas betban 7a2e2etha (eli bi3'esh meli bizaker)
*Al banat 2li bet7ot make up abl al exam, mesh 3arfa al fara3' da (al wa7ed be3'sel wesho bel3afya),
*Walad a3ed gmb bent 3ashan ye3'esh menha(asl al banat da7a7a),
*Abl al exam be yom wa7da tekelem wa7da fi al telephone in a friendly way 3ashan tes2alha fe 7agat gaya fe el emte7an we fe youm el emte7an walaaaaaaaaaaa te3rafha,
*bashoof ro2a keteer we bner3'y ma3 ba3d.

Tring to be better

I want really to ask my friends ;
eih 2li beyza3alko meni 3ashan abatalo?
begad ana nefsi ma7adesh abadan yez3al meni,
Be a real friend and please tell me;
eih 2li momken akon ba3melo we beydaye2ko
haga ba7'od bali menha aw la2 ,we law 7aga tafha 2oloha bardo.......